50 Secrets Of Happy People

in #life7 years ago (edited)

Hello Steemit friends,

I am currently reading a book about happiness. All the entries given to readers are based on research and conclusions by scientists studying about happiness and life satisfaction.

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I don't think that a book can teach you on how to be happy but it can give little guidelines and things to think about that might lead you to understanding and practice on enjoying life more.

Here are the 50 secrets of a happy person

  1. Your Life Has Purpose and Meaning
  2. Use A Strategy Of Happiness
  3. You Dont Have To Win Everytime
  4. Your Goals Should Be Aligned With One Another
  5. Choose Your Comparisons Wisely
  6. Cultivate Friendship
  7. Turn off the TV
  8. Accept Yourself - Unconditionally
  9. Remember Where You Came From
  10. Limit Yourself To Thinking About One Subject As You Lie Down To Sleep
  11. Friendships Beats Money
  12. Have Realistic Expectations
  13. Be Open To New Ideas
  14. Share with Others How Important They Are To You
  15. If You're Not Sure, Guess Positively
  16. Believe In Yourself
  17. Dont Believe In Yourself Too Much So
  18. Dont Face Your Problems ALone
  19. Age Is Not To Be Feared
  20. Develop A Household Routine
  21. Dont Be Overprotective
  22. Pay Attention. You May Have What You Want
  23. Dont Let Your Religious Beliefs fade
  24. Do What You Say You Are Going To Do
  25. Don t Be Aggressive With Your Friends And Family
  26. Root For The Home Team
  27. Dont Confuse Stuff With Success
  28. Every Relationship Is Different
  29. Dont Think "What If...."
  30. Volunteer
  31. If You Cant Reach Your Goals, Your Goals Will Hurt You
  32. Exercise
  33. Little Things Have Big Meaning
  34. It's Not What Happened, It's How you Think
  35. Develop A Common Interest With Loved Ones
  36. Laugh
  37. Busy Is Better Than Bored
  38. Enjoy What You Have
  39. Keep Your Family Close
  40. Never Trade Your Morals For Your Goals
  41. Get a Good Night Sleep
  42. Be Flexible
  43. Dont Forget to Have Fun
  44. Focus On What Really Matters To You
  45. Dont Let Other People Set Your Goals
  46. You Always Have A Choice
  47. Have A Purpose
  48. Money Does Not Buy Happiness
  49. Know What Makes You Happy And Sad
  50. Say "So What?"

I want to emphasize on happiness because i feel that we live in a time and era that is labeled to us on what happiness should be like and we go along with it without thinking so much. Some of these little words had an impact on me to how i saw things clearer and made me realized that happiness is from everything in life combine and not focused on just one thing. We here live life chasing for so many things but at the end all we want is just to be....... happy.

I have Hope You all Have a Lovely Week

Don't Forget To Keep Steeming !!!!

Much Love, Suzana

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People out there really need the article like this...mostly people work and work hard to get more money and money but they forget the purpose of their lifes that is to make themselves happy. What we live for if we never enjoy it....just enjoy it and be yourself without thinking people around you, who always blame and comment everything on you.
I really agree with your post. Happiness is yours and sadness is also yours. No one can make yourself happy, only you yourself can do that. Thanks for the tips.....

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Thank you for your lovely and up-lifting comments, Yes we tend to run seeking for so many things without realizing all we want is to be happy. More and More isnt our ultimate goal.

I love this. Especially the "busy is better than bored" point. It's very true. It kind of relates to other points as well like your life needing meaning and purpose, etc. I definitely know that if I'm stuck at home for a few days I start feeling down and alone. When I have a few days out, even if it's busy and tiring I feel better and more accomplished at the end of the day. But then you also need to learn to have fun and do things you enjoy and spend plenty of time with your loved ones. I guess it's all about a balance, isn't it?

"Never think 'what if?'" Is a big one too. No point in dwelling on what could have been, just got to focus on what is.

Great post, thankyou!

really a great article @suerisue most of us are really have some problems at certain points or maybe most of the time, and article like this is really motivational and helpful to overcome with the pain. thank you for sharing this great motivation to us, to me :) god bless you .. i joined steemit last night and trying to enjoy it to the fullest :))

May I add one please:
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Love this one too! thanks for sharing :)

It is Beautiful !! Thank you

Very interesting and lovely post! :-)
The secret to a successful and happy life for me is to have an objective you burn for. Something so big for you, you would cry in tears if you reach it. It has to fullfil you from the inside out. The best feeling in the world is, when you reach this goal! And that is true and inspiring happiness for me.

That is very deep !!! Wonderful ! You have that fire from within !!

It is always wonderful to come across posts which are positive and motivational! We need more of that in this world - and less of the opposite!

Happiness comes from within and is something that we all need to work on every day :)

Lovely post - thank you for sharing your tips.

Totally agree :D
you also deserve a vote and follow

Thank you

I just wanted to share the living the Golden Rule with you today @jaynie......................Have a Wonderful Day

You are so welcome !!!Yes, Happiness makes a person shine so bright !!!

Hello.
Very good post. I like secret 45. Let's rephrase it with John Maxwell - Do not let anyone hold the pen while you write your story.
What was the title of that book ?

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Thank You @suerisue I needed to see this right now and I am grateful for this posting. I was just thinking about things coming up in the near future and I forgot how important it is to stay in the moment. I am going to have FUN Today. I will also refer back to this list to keep me Centered and on track to Living the Golden Rule....................

Yassssssss !!! Have Fun !!! Live life to the Fullest ! <3

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