Good for you. Looks like you're clearly on the right track. Here's my two cents...
Confidence with humilty, empathy skills, other-centered lifestyle, good communication skills, courteous manners, generosity, leadership, wisdom and perhaps spiritual intuition etc.... I could go on. This would likely be some of the things on my list, but remember that everyone's list is different. Don't get spooked by a tall order or by different lists.
Thank you so much for the comment I will keep all of your advice in mind sometimes I write a post just to vent a little which is what this one was but I really do appreciate the advice and as I said I will keep it in mind
Cool, no problem. I think I just responded to you on my other post by accident.