It's amazing what enters our minds. We always think of the worse and never give much credit to ourselves. Always thinking we fall short of a standard and not "good enough." It's amazing what self love can do. It makes us treat ourselves better. To not beat up on ourselves. Understanding that "now" is all we've got and that where we stand is good and that if we lose something or something is taken away, it's ok, we're still here. It's taking a step back and understanding our priorities. As the singer , "PIT BULL" says, "Every day above ground is a good day." How true that is. Attitude of gratitude . So love thyself and be here now in the present. It's all we have ; it's where we start.