There are dead desires, that bind us, stop us on the road. There are the others, those who push us, those who open the way for us. Dead desires want to change what can not be changed. They make us look back, deny forgiveness and the possibility of forgiveness.  

 To forgive is to leave in the past what is of the past.  It is to accommodate that trauma where it corresponds. It is rebuilding from the ruins. It's closing that door, let the train move forward and play the game again.  Is to accept the own identity. It is encouraging to be another.  

It is to overcome our fears and face them.  It is to reencounter with oneself.  Forgive and forgive, is to let go of that that holds us back in time,  and finally be able to move forward. 

@stephen14