Pain teaches how to live!
Pain teaches us to live better because we realize that we have to follow life, facing and it is no use to hurry, much less plunge into pain as if it were an end of the world. You have to move on, whatever you do, until it's quiet again.
Sad not is crying, tue longing, suffering a little.
Sad to be dry candle.
Human actions are worth more than words, which attitudes show personalities. Do not feed whit what makes you suffer, disappointments are made to teach us to move on and not pack in place. Start to see life more positively, change your posture.
suffering is optional ...