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RE: The Delima of the Successful Single Lady
The yorubas are the worst in convincing that a successful woman is not a prostitute...and the trend nowadays for young women is to work hard and get a lot of money whereas the men are just sitting doing nothing!!
Its alarming really, as much as the women want independency, its looking like the men are gradually becoming dependent on their women and at the end the man would leave because one way or the other, his ego would be bruised. No wonder we have a lot of single mothers and irresponsible men.
This is a crucial topic on the table.
Keep steeming,
Love ❤❤,
@soorefunmi
You said it all dear. Thats is the typical yoruba belief.
I dont think this is tribe dependent. There are alot of people with different opinion in different tribes and walks of life. While there are irresponsible men, there are a lot of hard-working men that will cherish a made lady.
No is not particular to one tribe. She just mention the tribe she is use to and know well.
Please let's not narrow this down to tribalism
No, i am not being tribalistic, i am yoruba too, i am just saying it is sooo hard to convince your yoruba parents or family members that as a female you should be very successful, most times they might feel you would not get a good husband if you are a successful woman. You get my point now?
I just love you already. It was as if you know what was on my mind. Typical yoruba way of thinking. Not all of them though, but is mainly common among them.