Marriage is NOT for the timid, it is Hard work! You both seem to be nice people, and I am praying for all three of you for the best result that works!
I am glad you are working on getting back together. It may Not be possible, but trying is wise. It sounds like you both have your eyes open, and that is an excellent place to start. Family can sometimes help, so lean on them where you can!
Stay safe!
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