Don't be afraid of change, you can do it !

If you want to have better life, you need to change something, my friend. You cannot make things better without any change. Of course I understand that a lot of people are afraid, to change something, whether it’s jobs, relationships or anything else.

It’s completely normal that we are afraid of change, because it’s brings something new, something what we don’t know yet in to our lives. This fact could be kind of scary, because it’s like jump in to dark hole, where you’ve no idea what’s on the bottom of it.

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Because of that reason, many people living their life like they are, even if those people aren’t happy. They’ve their work, their partner and friend, their habits, which they know and because of that they aren’t afraid of them, but there will be a time, when the circumstances force them to change something, because they can’t live like that forever. This is probably the worst case of change in their lives, because they have minimal control of direction of the change. If they aren’t able to control the change in their life, it can happen that it’ll be even worse than before.

Better way is take your courage and make something with your life. I know, it’s easy to write, but harder to actually do it. It’s very possible, that if you don’t start right know and don’t change anything, you’ll be regretted it in the future. If you want to work on your fear from changes, maybe I can help you a bit.

In my opinion the best way, how to learn make changes in your life, and don’t be afraid of them, is to start with something small and make it bigger every day. Try to for example one day, use only your left hand (if you’re right handed) or opposite if you’re left. I can guarantee to you that it‘ll be weird feeling to clean your teeth or cut your meat only with your left hand, but you’ll remember that for a long time. :)

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And then in the evening, when you’ll be at the end of the day, try to recall everything that happened to you during this day and you did all of that only with your left hand. That’s a change, don’t you think? If you’ll be challenging yourself every day with something new, it’ll teach you, how to make changes in your life. With this way, you can easily get used to have life, which is full of changes. Then it will be easier to accept bigger changes in your life, my friend, and you will be not afraid of them anymore.

Don't worry invent some crazy things, creativity doesn't have a limit. (Open your jorugurt with knife from the bottom and eat it like that, smash egg only with one hand, don't use any button whole day). Important is to make things different way.

“80% of success is just start”

Remember, my friend, if you don’t do anything in life, you will not lose anything, but you’ll never know whether you’ll succeed. If you try something, you can fail, but even then, you can learn from that failure and try it again and better.

Many old people say that things which they regret the most are those which they have never tried.

Thank you for your time :)

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