First, let me say what an amazing person you are. It takes a strong spirit, and massive courage to not only endure bullying, but to find ways to defeat it. I really like your suggestion about finding a passion. You are right, it builds self-esteem, and gives you more confidence. It also helps to take the focus off what "they" are doing TO you, and puts the focus on what YOU are doing for YOU. I'm sorry for your struggle, but glad you found ways to overcome. I know it can be difficult some days, but just look yourself in the mirror every day, and say, "I love you, Brian." It works a special kind of magic on your psyche, to hear yourself tell yourself that you are loved.

And remember, how others treat you is not a reflection of who you are, but a reflection of who they are.