Karma Is Not Your Friend.....

We all want to fall in love and feel loved. What we all don't want is been dumped for someone else or been cheated on but what we would like is to be the dumper and cheater. I just don't understand us humans. See we all want to be in a relationship just because everyone else is in one or because the guy or girl in your inbox in good looking. These days its all about whats on the outside and not the inside. I just want to share a little story. Its real.

There was a couple that lived a normal life just like everyone else. The man was a secretary and the woman was a stay at home wife. They didn't have much but they loved each other (so they thought). The man was kind and quite he gave his wife anything she asked for even when his salary was much he made sure she lived a good decent life. The wife got tired of staying home and so asked the husband for some money in-order for her to start selling some clothes. The husband started working on trying to find money for her. In a few months he had gathered the amount she had asked for. She was so happy.

She opened a boutique and started travelling around the world to buy clothes. Everything started going well for the, the business was becoming bigger and bigger. She started getting more money than her husband. At first it was fine but then later on she started comparing to him and how much shes earning and paying the rent. The husband was quite shocked. He didn't know what to tell her. She had forgotten that without him she wouldn't have that business.

The company the husband worked for was shutting down because it was in so much debt. So he lost his job and his wife was becoming cooky by the day. He didn't know what to do because he was a humble man and respected his wife. Things got worse as the wife started coming home late and sleeping with other men. Every time shes out the husband blames himself for providing the money and for trying to give a a very comfortable life even when he had so little. He was so stressed out and confused.

The wife later started bringing men into the house and will call the husband a worker and chase him around like his not human. Weeks of this treatment he couldn't take. One day he woke up and found a later for him saying she has left the country for good and has followed on of the boy friends. He broke down into tears. After everything they have been through she decided to leave him when he needed her the most with someone who she met after she became a somebody. He refused to believe this and waited for her. She never came back, he didn't have a job and money to rent the house so he was kicked out. He stayed with his friends for a while but they also had families to take care of it wasn't long that he became homeless.

All hope was lost, he went and jumped in front of a moving car. He just wanted to end it all. He was in a very critical condition and doctors thought he wouldn't survive. But one nurse believed otherwise. This nurse use to be with him most of the day because he didn't really have a family. She would sign, read and pray for him. That became her everyday routine. A few weeks later he woke up. He started getting better every day. He was close to been discharged. He got to know the nurse very well as they spent time together while he was hospitalized. He didn't have anywhere to stay so she offered him a place until he found one.

The man started looking for a job, he had a degree in business management. They was a job opening for startups and he applied. He got the job and even got his own house now. Some time passed and things started going well for him. He started seeing the nurse and they later on got married. He was a happy man once again. 2 years passed. He now had twin babies, a big house and was the new manager of the company. Everything was going well.

One rainy day when he was waiting for his car he saw a very hungry woman trying to find food from the bin. He walked towards so that he could help her as he knows how it feels to be in there shoes, she didn't want to show her face . He was in a rush so he left his business card and some money for her to get what she needs . The next day the woman comes to thank him for what he did not knowing what its her ex husband. They then get to meet eye to eye and realize who the other is. She quickly knelt down to ask for forgiveness from him. He wasn't ready. She told him what happened to her when she run away with another man. He only wanted her for money and after that he run away with all her stuff. She began to explain how she struggled after that. He then told her that his the manger of a very big company, is remarried and has two kids. His ex wife started to realize that what she did years ago was a very big mistake. Her ex husband had already moved on from the past. He was now happy. All he could do was help her and let her leave. As she walked towards the door she realized that her past was catching up with her. She burst into tears knowing how she treated her ex husband.

See guys when you decide to be in a love treat that person right instead of hurting them. Lets get to know each other both on the inside and outside so we can know if we are meant to be. Lets treat the other people the way we want to be treated. Lets be honest with each other and be there for our partners no matter the situation, don't change half way through the relationship and quite.

please comment your thoughts and if you know anyone who karma caught up with.

Thanks for reading