Harsh realities of life that You are better of Accepting

1.The life you are living right know is a dream for many people.

There are lots of people in our country who strive very hard to fulfill there basic needs.Terrible things happens to people,things beyond anyone's control.Not everyone has the resources to manage their lives.Not everyone has family and friends who cares about them. So next time you crib about not being in a relationship or getting late for work,remember that you are more fortunate than some people.

2.The higher the number of your friends,the higher is the pile of shit you have to deal with.

Eventually you realize that the fewer friends you have,the better it is for you.It's very hard to please everyone,and more importantly,expectations can backfire.i]It is better to keep your distance from everyone,than lose your cool later.

3.We don't see things as they are .We see things as way WE are.

4.We are always in a hurry but hardly ever on time.

We always want to get somewhere,and we want to reach fast.But the truth of the matter is that it's not possible to multitask all the time.There will be days when it will be impossible to do everything.So take it slow and relax.

5.Social media is about sociology and psychology more than technology.

Social media is all about laying,and who lies better.It's a game we all love playing and we are becoming experts at it too.

6.Everyone is selfish.

We talk to people we want to talk to.We go out of our way only for those people who we think our worth it.Basically our actions revolve around our likes and dislikes.So how are we not selfish?

7.Nobody wants to be your self.They want you to be the person they like being around.

That's the reason trying to please everyone is considered the easiest way to ruin things.

8.Everyone does the RIGHT thing.Only its definition differs from person t person.

This is the truth we hardly acknowledge.We are so full of ourselves and our version of the RIGHT THINGS that we ignore everyone else's definitions.Remember that everyone including your Family Friends and Colleagues think that they are doing the right thing.

9.No one will ever completely understand you.

Stop expecting people to understand you.Understand yourself first and understand those around you.Only then you can expect people to relate you.

10.Some people will have valid reasons to dislike you.

You are not the only one who has the right to dislike people.Fellow human beings are also entitled to their opinions and if they are not fond of you you must deal with it.Sadly we all grow up to believe that the world revolves around us BUT it doesn't.

11.''Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives,but none about his or her own.'' --Paulo Coelho,The Alchemist

Hah!Enough said.

12.Your friends will change your position on their priority lists.

Time physical distance and situations influence people.As a result relationships and their definitions change.We might feel heart broken and betrayed but all of that doesn't matter.Because if you look at your own priorities you it's true.this is life where change is the only constant.

13.We judge others by their actions,and our selves by our intentions.

This is universal.Whenever we narrate our side of the story we ensure that we highlight our good intentions.We love playing the victim card and the other person becomes the bad person.