7 Reasons, Why Men Often Feel Never Satisfied
Human beings are complex, unpredictable and full of surprises. Every human character that exists on this earth is certainly not the same one with the other. In addition there are some things that are owned by humans whether positive or negative.
One of the things that many people may feel is to feel insatiable and always want more and more. Whether in achievement, wealth, friendship or romance. Then have you ever wondered why humans often feel insatiable?
1. Competence
The first thing that makes humans insatiable is the competence factor. Everyone wants to prove that he is capable of dealing with any life issues. The feeling of being able to rely heavily on intellectual, social and emotional development. With the fakor of someone's competence will always be challenged to be better than others.
2. Want to know
Understand, arrange and predict (predictability). Everyone seeks to understand and gain meaning from his world. We need a frame of reference to evaluate new situations and direct actions. Humans tend to be impatient in ambiguity, uncertain. Because of the tendency to give meaning to what is experienced.
Nature of curiosity is one of the referrers that cause humans always want to know things that he did not know, and realize you that it is what triggers humans feel insatiable.
3. Self-esteem and identity seeking needs
Closely related to the need to show ability and gain affection. This need is to show existence in the world. We want our presence not only to be numbered, but also to be taken into account. The natural character of man who certainly has this ego is also one of the things that cause always want more.
Therefore, along with the need for self-esteem, people seek self-identity. The loss of self-identity will lead to pathological behavior so easily affected and so on.
4. Self-fulfillment
Not only do we want to sustain life, we also want to improve the quality of our lives and to fulfill our potentials. As one psychologist Abaraham Maslow once said, "What a man can be, he must be". The need for self-fulfillment is done through various forms that is by developing the potential and enrich the quality of life that certainly is not limited.
5. Need for value
The craving and meaning of life. In the face of life's turmoil, human beings need values to demand it in making decisions or giving meaning to their life. Things that are religious in a better self-concept make people always feel insatiable and always want to improve themselves continuously.
6. Love
*Loving and being loved is essential for the growth of a human personality. People want to be accepted into their group as volunteers rather than volunteers. The warmth of friendship, the sincerity of affection, the acceptance of others who are warmly desperately needed human beings.
Consequently of that, man becomes inclined to think continuously to behave more than tomorrow so that it can be felt continuously. And if it is not fulfilled it will arise the nature of aggressive, frustrating and other negative things.*
7. Lack of gratitude
The last thing, the cause of humans always feel unsatisfied is the tendency to not be grateful for the small and big things that happen in his life. Try to always be grateful, because believe me all the human being in the world is a special individual. Try to be a person who is always grateful.
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