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RE: A letter to my abuser, One I should have wrote years ago. This is for my benefit, you dont have to read it.
My closed group of survivors all wrote letters to our abusers. I sent mine stained with tears to my stepfather and his 3rd wife. I never heard back from him and his wife. I got closure from that practice. No more free rent in my head to him or his kin! I hope this frees your mind like it did mine. I listed details and dates in my letter too!
Thank you, I am glad this worked for you too, writing it down then reading it back has finalised things for me. I now see this wasn't my fault he was the adult I have nothing to be ashamed of :)
I think the school board should know as well, it's their job to keep preditors away from our children. We have nothing to be ashamed of! We should be proud we survived and didn't follow down the victim and abuser path. You have such a lovely family🙏
I wish the school board had known about him, but thankfully he got what he deserved. He was killed crossing a train line. I don't feel anything for him just glad he's gone and not hurting anyone else.