Virgo Meets Venus Next Week: Here’s Why Your Love Life Won’t Be the Same

 Next week, Venus departs from fiery Leo into practical earth sign Virgo, and the difference will be huge. You may have been feeling light, whimsical, casual, flirtatious, and confident in your relationships this past month, and it may have been your experience that whether you're single or in a relationship, your times spent with others have been filled with laughter. There's been an innovative, dreamy quality to Venus the past couple weeks, adding color to all of our interactions with the potential for lighthearted and creative collaboration. Be prepared for Venus in Virgo to drastically change all that. Leo is associated with children, as Leo brings out the child in all of us, so things might feel a bit more serious this month. 

Your friendships. Venus in Virgo doesn't just affect your romantic relationships; your friendships are impacted as well. In friendships, you'll feel more aware of others' needs and wants because Virgos are more aware of a person's likes and dislikes. Virgos tend to be keen observers.

Thinking of others. Virgos are naturally reflective, empathetic and helpful people and with Venus in Virgo, you could find yourself going out of your way to be of service to others, taking time to consider their feelings. Virgos are self-reflective, and are excellent at putting themselves in another person's shoes to see things from their perspective.

Focus on your health. Virgo is associated with the sixth house of work, which includes health and exercise. How does this relate to relationships with others? Joining a running group or taking a yoga class is a great way to focus on your health and make new friends at the same time.

A quiet approach. You may feel more cautious with your feelings this month. You are less inclined to outward displays of affection, feeling more private about your love life than you may have earlier this year.

Suitors. Expect to meet a lot of new potential suitors over the next few months. Do not expect them to all be perfect. Different types of people are drawn to you, and the feeling will not always be mutual.

Higher standards. You may find that your standards have become higher when it comes to dating. This doesn't mean you have somehow become a harsh or a critical person; you are simply more in tune with what you want and who you are looking for.

Observational skills. You will notice things about others that you might have overlooked before. If someone is not being genuine, be prepared to spot it. If someone feeds you a line while you're out on a date, you're going to catch it, and you won't take the bait.

Buy you a drink. Don't be surprised if people send you drinks while you're out at a bar. Your confidence is extremely attractive. Don't feel obligated to accept them; you know that you are perfectly capable of paying for your own martini, and you don't necessarily want to strike up a conversation with every stranger who notices you, and that is okay.

Communication. If you started casually dating someone, you will grow closer over the next month. You will learn how to address certain important issues directly and openly, having candid conversations. This can either make or break your relationship.

No nonsense. You will find that your tolerance for BS is lower than usual this month. Try not to let people get under your skin; stay calm, cool and collected. This also goes for your professional life--office antics may aggravate you, but you'll be able to stay above it if you keep your head down and work hard.

Bickering among friends. Your friends may get into a heated disagreement and attempt to get you to choose a side. Don't let them drag you into it. Let them know that you don't want to be a part of it. It they can't take no for an answer, it's time to reevaluate that friendship.

Different perspective. Now that the summer's almost over, you're going to be feeling more serious-minded about the future. You had some goofy, college type fun by the pool, but you're going to wind up hanging out less with your friends who are eternal fratboys.

 

Toxic friendships. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. If one of your friends starts to bring you down, or starts taking your friendship in a dark direction, it's time to draw the line. You may have to sever a friendship or two this year based on the bad behavior of others out of self-preservation. You will be heartbroken at first, but remember, you can't save everyone.

Be of service. Remember to show your significant other that you appreciate them. Let your partner know that you're listening to them, love being with them, and are happy to be sharing your life with them.

Conflict at work. You may have to deal with some disaster management at work this month. Remember to focus on problem solving rather than getting stuck in the crisis itself. Stay calm and don't panic.