I agree.

The happiness we share with others often comes in moments when we're happy as well. Focusing on the outside and ignoring what's inside, while in some cases honorable, can lead to more harm done to those we care about, simply because we ignored our state of mind and happiness.

Balance is pretty much a must. Learning how to take care of ourselves, ignoring whatever people around us say, while also not making them feel bad all the time and taking care of people we care about, that is, in my opinion, the best way to handle everything.

Thank you for the kind words :)