Liberté, égalité & fraternité in the boudoirsteemCreated with Sketch.

in #life7 years ago (edited)

"Egalitarianism is wonderful in the kitchen but boring in the bedroom..."

Firstly, yes liberty in the bedroom is good, perhaps even libertinage- and definitely do be liberal about love-making.
But the wonderful equality which has arrived in the political and vocational spheres has no place between the sheets.
The reason is that sexuality requires polarity.
No polarity, no passion.

While the classic example of this is the masculine male and the feminine female, many other combinations are possible including those between homosexual partners as well as the dominant woman and submissive male.
However you roll in the hay, polarity must be at play.
The ultimate text on this is The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.

A woman wants to feel you 'taking her'- this is you following your desire. Too often, as sensitive new-age guys we suffer from fear of coming off as rough and misogynistic. Meanwhile, our woman is left wanting- or more correctly, not feeling wanted.
It is only when we as men embrace our full desire that we can embrace our woman fully. And only then, can she flower in the surrender of her full femininity.

Sort:  

Congratulations @rafadezelanda! You have completed some achievement on Steemit and have been rewarded with new badge(s) :

Award for the number of comments

Click on any badge to view your own Board of Honnor on SteemitBoard.
For more information about SteemitBoard, click here

If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word STOP

If you want to support the SteemitBoard project, your upvote for this notification is welcome!

Congratulations @rafadezelanda! You have completed some achievement on Steemit and have been rewarded with new badge(s) :

You got your First payout
Award for the total payout received

Click on any badge to view your own Board of Honnor on SteemitBoard.
For more information about SteemitBoard, click here

If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word STOP

If you want to support the SteemitBoard project, your upvote for this notification is welcome!

Coin Marketplace

STEEM 0.26
TRX 0.20
JST 0.038
BTC 97246.74
ETH 3577.34
USDT 1.00
SBD 3.88