RE: Self-Forgiveness: the key to the life you most want
When we do not charge at all, we have no need of forgiveness. This also means, that true love thinks above forgiving one another and also forgiving oneself. Charity is the pure wisdom that comes by the Grace of God. When we receive it unconditionally, we do not need forgiveness at all. We are not living in a biased world to forgive 'one another'. The term, one another sounds biased and forgiveness sounds still an evil deed as to first blame and then forgive.
What happens when we do not charge the person at all? What happens when we do not blame ourself for anything that happens. We are actually living an unbiased life in the Freedom of God where we do not need to limit ourself in 'charging others and then forgiving". Life without charging at all is the true and unconditional life.
Not seeing the wrongdoings in anyone and oneself is Charity and Charity never fails. Such a love does not need forgiveness either. It is perfect love of God that does not need forgiveness. We can have this perfect love by having God's pure wisdom within us.