Story

In connection with the crisis, our turnover has increased. Someone is coming, someone is leaving, in the office is an Aztz brothel, confusion and vacillation.
With one of the new employees, I happened to meet at the buffet. Appetite was spoiled, for which she was personally thankful.
At first she talked for a long time (in detail) how she had undergone the PROCESS, then complained about the difficulties of raising a child with a delay in psycho-speech development ... At this stage of the story, I was picking on a plate with a fork and thought: "Why live like this ?!"
Then the second part of the permitted speeches on the topic "my former - a scoundrel, a scumbag and a freak - a multifaceted person" followed. Alimony does not pay, he got married, travels abroad, and he pities his son for an extra penny. It was more interesting to me, and I agreed that, yes, the comrade was not acting well, the responsibility, still nobody canceled it. But from my fiery speech, for some reason, she hesitated, coughed and quietly betrayed that she had deceived him. The former did not want to breed, was protected by elastic bands, and always bought rubber bands himself and stored it at the heart together with the red-skinned ksive. But, Madame added, an intelligent woman knows what to do. In short, she took advantage of the biomaterial; "watch ticking."
Grief, woe to one whose crystal dreams have crashed against the cast-iron ass of reality! She counted on a white dress, a bunch of guests and pink heels. I, in general, understand and accept such desires
But in the end - alimony from the official salary of 5000 rubles, and the former went under the crown - but quite with another woman.

The story is short and causing my perplexity.
As many know here, I now get a second higher education on the evening group. The group we have from people mostly older age, from 30 years and above. There are a couple of young girls about 25 years old, but they are one. Generally, this group of the whole course is the most serious in terms of attendance and study from the whole course (and we have 6 groups). Recently decided to congratulate our head of the stream, well, the postcard there with wishes, a small gift. Just as a token of attention and gratitude. The person who organizes all this has bought two greeting cards to choose from - one branch with Christmas tree toys, another in American style with some kind of strange girl. They began to choose what to give. The result of the choice: a postcard with this girl, and the main argument was not the congratulation itself, but the fact that the starosta of the stream had recently married and needed to immediately wish for the children. On my puzzled questions: how does the holiday relate to the birth of children immediately after marriage, for which such a rush and in general what does the holiday? Has received the answer: You that, it is necessary! Who needs, why should ..... no one to explain did not bother, and most importantly, a person does not want children at all! I certainly timidly noticed that I would be offended if such hints were given to me in New Year's greetings. Of course, they booed me and nobody took my words seriously.
In general, some kind of nonsense! I guess I'll never understand this psychology.