A man returns to his house and sees it in flames, the fire had spread too much so there was little to be spared. There were many onlookers who just watched. The man was devastated.

One of his sons runs up to him and says "do not worry, yesterday I sold the house for triple its price.."

The father was delighted his tears dried up and continues to watch the flame with other bystanders. Then his second son comes up to him and says "Why are you laughing while your house burns?"
The father replies "don't you know that your brother sold it ?"
The second son replies "he just negotiated it. The man would not buy the house now!"
Tears of misery returns to the father's eyes. The bystanders have gone.
The third son arrives and says "That man is ready to pay the agreed price as he was more interested in the land than the house"
The father is joyful again . The fire does not concerns him anymore.

Most of our thoughts are really not ours. These are the thoughts of parents, media ,friends...
We should give time to our self and see what good lies in our head. Our actions are a direct manifestations of our thoughts.