Awesome comment! I upvoted it in order for more people to see, you should help me and upvote yourself too.
I agree with you on the first point, at the end the " I am" we hear in our brain is our identity, but sometimes it's not that easy to just change the Identity (though it's possible!). We can ask ourselves what I want to be, try to look at it like we are not a piece of art but the artist! Step by step work with our behaviours and to form believes at the end that will change our identity.

Thank you for great comment again :)