Cigarettes: The worlds first social network.

in #life7 years ago (edited)

I don't like the way society has gone, technology for all of it's myriad of uses has inevitably had drawbacks (All good things in moderation as they say) and social media in my opinion has been whats spiking up the level of young people suffering from anxiety, depression, cognitive bias and straight up poor social skills.

I started a new job in a cinema recently and after a day or two i decided to go down to the staff room for lunch (instead of having a cigarette outside) to socialize with the people that i'd be working with, i walked into the staff room where six people were sitting, all of their heads craned downwards as they glared at their screens. I proceeded to introduce myself to them and i'd say about four out of the six actually looked up for a fraction of a second to say hello before the weight of their addiction caused their heads to drop back down to their devices, google gravity seems like a fitting term for this.Unacceptable.

I could only handle the disgusting silence for two minutes before i decided to head outside and bum a smoke, partially for the nicotine but mostly for the human interaction and lo and behold it worked like a charm, i met a global warming non believer and we discussed it over a cigarette it was fascinating, hilarious and troubling all at the same time, an insight into the mind of a stranger that never would have been possible with the limitations of social media.

That interaction got the gears turning in my noggin and i thought to myself "cigarettes, the first social network that truly brings people of all beliefs together" but how long has this been going on for? What do scientists say on the social benefits of smoking? Lets explore....

From what i can gauge via various other articles, smoking goes back as far as 4000BC in the Americas as part of shamanistic rituals where different plant derived tobacco's served different purposes but for the sake of brevity i'll be mentioning the one most relatable which is Mapacho (when translated roughly describes a cigar sized paper cigarette albeit far more potent than any modern cigarette) and was used by people in order to "clear the energy field of a person seeking balance and realignment". Which strikes me as interesting seeing as so many people today when asked "why do you smoke?" say that it "Takes the edge off and relaxes them" which i guess could be interpreted as clearing ones "energy field" and "finding balance".

But it was also part of a group ritual, an interaction with others and so the relationship between smoking and social interactions dates back as far as 4000BC in the Americas and evidence of marijuana being smoked in the middle east through hookahs around 5000BC before tobacco arrived there as part of a social activity, there are plenty more examples of historical smoking for a plethora of different reasons but discussing them all in detail would take forever. My point is that through thousands of years, societal interactions and spiritual interactions are bound together with smoking that it's in the human psyche to relate them together. But what have modern scientists said about the process?

Well to be fair i can't find a whole pile of modern day social scientists willing to divulge their thoughts on the matter seeing as smoking is so heavily stigmatized in this day and age that doing so would probably result in their credibility being somewhat tarnished, i've found a few discussing health benefits (though any health benefits derived from smoking are quickly countered with cancer, heart disease etc killing people like flies). I have however discovered a paper published by Dr. Sherwin Feinhandler back in the 1980's when the whole thing was less taboo a topic.

Feinhandler's paper "the social role of smoking" stated that cigarettes....

-allow people to “express an image”.

-“enhance positive emotional states” and help people “to relax and to minimize feelings of anxiety or stress”.

-“smoking provides boundary mediation between personal and group space” while “reinforcing” certain peer relationships.

-“segments time,” marking the beginning or end of an event.

Being a former full time smoker turned casual i can relate to all of these although i'm somewhat reluctant to admit that it was part of "expressing an image" nobody wants to think that their being "cool" because doing so makes it considerably less "cool" however i'd be lying if i said it wasn't some of the appeal at the beginning... ah i'm a sap.

And please, by writing this i am in no way advocating smoking as a good habit to have, all i'm saying is that i'd rather be riddled with cancer and emphysema if thats what it took to meet new people and discover new stories than to bury my head in the cesspit of social media and thus so cut myself off from the limitless possibilities of new and exciting social interactions.

Any thoughts on this article? Any similar stories of the downward spiral of society? Anything i could have done better when writing it? Anything at all? Please do let me know down below as i'm always seeking outside opinions on what i put out there in order to get better at doing so.

Yours sincerely

Omalleyo

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This is a well written article...

I actually really liked it man, I mean that. It was well researched, thought out and articulated. I used to smoke and despite the intense health risks it really did bring people together. It gave a simple yet subtly profound point of relation between people from very different places.

If you were man enough to focus on your own writing I have no doubt you will do well here.

I only have issue with one thing.

"social media in my opinion has been whats spiking up the level of young people suffering from anxiety, depression, cognitive bias and straight up poor social skills."

Yet you still chose to cyber bully people?

I guess your actions on social media don't contribute to this in young people? Or maybe it's that picking on women is just bred into you.

Either way...

Simply appalling.

Welcome to steemit.

Ahh man i don't think there's any picking on anybody going on here, i just think it's a rather ludicrous thing to be able to produce content that takes no talent or skill level whatsoever and be so heavily rewarded for it whilst in the meantime people who work hard at a craft get pennies in return, something seems amiss am i wrong? Now i'm willing to admit that the posts of the particular person in question we are discussing did enrage me and no doubt clouded my judgement on the matter however i am a man who believes that sometimes in life you need to hear the abuse, for the world is not a utopia of happiness and love, reality is a cruel mistress but without the hardships of life then there would be no characters of merit, no rags to riches stories, no striving toward self betterment and no sense of achievement that comes from climbing above those who doubted you and saying "fuck you, cunt". If you'll note my comment on her post i did give some constructive criticism which i might add is more than this petty attempt to shame me does....

So, you are just a dick. Ok, at least you own it.

Come to Ireland, call me a dick in a person.

Here chump, clearly you can't read and i'm going to have you done for inappropriately flagging my comment as none of it falls under the requirements. This is going to appealed.

have fun with that but Hate Speech or Internet Trolling is number 3 on the list of reasons to flag.

So sick of this already, clearly we disagree on the issue but for the sake of argument, go on, define hate speech in definite terms in a manner that doesn't leave just about everything that isn't positive subject to scrutiny.

Technology can help a lot with communication, for example for people that can't reach each other otherwise. But when it starts getting in the way of it, then we have to ask ourselves where to draw the line. Nothing can replace real life interaction and communication.

You're right! But it will be really difficult to find this line though....

Very interesting! I have to admit I belong to the people staring at their phones.... I know it's distgusting but I already try to get better because I am annoyed by myself. When I was a child I loved playing outside and meet new people... well I still love meeting new interesting people and have a good chat with them. But most of them right now are looking down at their phones and every now and then I try to start a conversation it ends in: "Oh, I have a text!" or"let me look something up" or "Wait a miute I have a call".... And at this time I also automatically pull out my phone and look at it -.-
I am a no smoking person but I noticed that I started to go outside with the smokers and just stand and talk with them (without smoking myself). So you are right it is totally different!
Anyway great post! Follow you and hope for more great posts :D Have a nice and full of good conversations day!

The worst is if there is a person that simply doesn't want to talk to you and you can almost sense it, then you see their hand reaching for the phone, i'd rather someone simply say that they don't agree with me/ like me and then call me a cunt. Less ambiguous i guess.

You're right! This would make things much easier for both!

I found this post quite enlightening, and daring to counter the politically correctness of hammering smoking and smokers. I am a regular smoker, yet I am away of the shadow (the risk of dying from it) that hangs over all smokers heads. So I did make some attempts, the longest being a year.

I remember, during that year, I was still employee of a big company. I would still go out of the building for this cigarette break without a cigarette, because of the social interactions. At the time, 5 years ago, social media was not an addiction for all, but it was starting.

Today, I am appalled by what I see when riding a train. As I refused to be connected all the time (I have a non-internet smartphone that I use only as... a phone, nothing more ), I spot in the train someone unconnected too, and if I have a good feeling about the person, approach him or her. It creates a kind of a new circle. The unconnected!

I think the repercussions of the social media drug will be incredibly evident 10 years from now, not to say that the madness of the whole thing isn't abundant as all hell as it is

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