•          It is a very strange equation, when a girl advances to fall in love with someone who marginalizes, neglects and torments her, but, refuses to approach someone else who reciprocates her respect and appreciation so that he is ready to sacrifice himself for her.

•         Perhaps the factors that drive her to pursue these non-voluntary choices are her personality, which seeks to discover the mystery of the hard-core lover. In addition to the desire to live a different experience from the usual taken as a challenge between herself, in order to achieve her goals. But she often realizes that she has mistakenly bet on a losing equation that will not succeed, no matter how much she tries.

                                

  1)- Life experience in emotional matters is nil;

•           Delinquency in choosing the right partner often results from a lack of experience in emotional matters, where the girl encounters the feelings of love for the first time and begins to catch up with the choices of her heart without judging her mind. But it is keen to balance the mind and heart in future experiments.

                      

         2)- Naive in making decisions;

•         It is hard for a girl not to be able to measure things emotionally. May be naïve and unaware of the reality of what is happening on the ground. She therefore believes that she is fond of a mythical hero and is reluctant to comment on his mistakes. But this naiveté in the end produces only emotional failure and the learning of harsh lessons that waste a lot of time and morale.

                     

         3)- A fictional character far from reality;

•         Here the girl paints a different picture of the reality of the young man she loves in her mind.  Starts thinking that the knight of her dreams is imaginary. She believes that the bad conditions she encounters with him in the first period are natural factors, and the drama is an integral part of the sweetness of the story. The worst she imagines that the end will be happy. This means that she is far from the reality of life and she is a dreamy woman living in a different world, but it will not turn into reality.

                               

4)- Insubordination only generates recklessness;

•       The girl may has stubborn personality, and this is her nature. She will insist that the person she loves is the best ever, and she will succeed in winning his heart. But in the end she will surrender, even though its persistence may last for years.

                             

 5)- Strangeness is an interesting element

• A person who moves away from his or her loved usually has an oddity in his personality and behavior, and this drives others to catch up with him and drown more in this ambiguity to explore his content. Although she may learn that her choice contributes to her harm, she continues. Because she wants to know the secrets of his personality that she captures. The secret is simple: it evades because it means nothing to him, but he is pleased in the game of catching hearts.

                              

  6)- Desire to own

• The girl may love to own. SHE seeks to own the person she loves, as if you were fighting an emotional war and did not care about the losses. But she will not succeed in its endeavor, no matter how long. Because man does not like these qualities at all.

                                                                                                                                                   By: A. ALFUTAIH