This happens to a very decent article. Years ago I learnt the importance of not giving advice, even when people come to you with their problems (easier said than done). Most times they just need to closure and other times they simply need clarity, which you can provide them by asking the right questions. Personally, I do not like to interfere in other people's issues, but if I have to I would give my two cents on the issue--especially when I care about the said person. Notwithstanding everyone has the right to experience life for themselves and I still believe experience is the best teacher.
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Trying to keep shut when people say out their problems to us definitely is a hard one, I guess we all just want people around us to be better, and take better steps, that's why our mouth seems to "itch" us sometimes.
Asking the right questions before giving our 2cents on matters definitely is a great way to better understand the situation at hand. Without taking that extra step to better understand the situation at hand, we end up giving one-sided advice, which well, isn't so efficient most times...
I also do believe experience to be the best teacher but then again, we can't experience it all, so most times, we miss out of being thought by this great teacher... Oh, life!! It's amazing, isn't it?
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