Thanks for the thought-provoking post as always @macksby! I've cycled these same questions many times over the years as well and always conclude that quality is more important than quantity and the definition of quality is unique to each person. We each have different measures for success and happiness and fulfillment. I know for me I don't want to outlive everyone I love although hopefully I'll still be making new friends as an old woman, I'd like to live as long as a really good health lasts and use my time well living with as much awareness and presence as possible!