Fish and bear paw
To enjoy the beauty of life, but also to understand the sufferings of life. Life does not have both, some are just choices again and again.
People in the world are pursuing perfection, but no one can achieve true perfection.
Everyone has many ideas about their lives, but reality can never be as perfect as imagined.
Both fish and bear's paws are delicious on the table. They can't be had at the same time. It's just a pity. It is this regret that makes the choice meaningful.
There are always many choices in life.
Whenever you are faced with a major choice, it is like standing in your life.
There are two roads ahead. However, no matter which way you choose, people will always regret not choosing another way.
In people's subconscious minds, they always think that every decision will affect their lives, so they analyze possible situations on their own, fall into their own fictional possibilities, and cannot be freed from it.
We don't know whether the end of the road is good or bad, whether it is beautiful scenery or a cliff. Maybe some people will say that it is too late to find the cliff at the end?
How can we be sure that the end of the other road is not a cliff?
No one has ever said that the end brought about by these two choices must be different scenery. Just like there is a cliff at the end, there is also a beautiful scenery at the end.
Should we give up the possibilities we are looking forward to and choose a path that "cannot go wrong" due to our fictional future?
There is no truly perfect life in the world, and there are no “other options” that can make life more perfect. Due to imperfections, this is a normal state of life.
Fish and bear paws bring us different life experiences, not an excuse for us to criticize our destiny. We can see that even if we are holding the golden key and living a prosperous life all day, we will still have regrets in our hearts. This regret may be a criticism of life and lack of rough experiences.
Everyone will envy the lives of others. Because a person's heart can only experience the suffering of his own life, but his eyes can see the beauty of other people's lives, and other people's lives are always more perfect than their own. However, although you envy others, they also envy you.
Everyone's life has a shining place. Instead of pursuing a perfection that does not exist, you should live your life wholeheartedly. This is the essence of a happy life!
Always standing on this mountain, looking at that high mountain. The pursuit of desire never ends.
Fish and bear's paw are just a kind of melancholy after being difficult to satisfy. To truly understand life, there should be two birds in the tree, not as good as a bird in the hand. That is the open-mindedness after a thousand sails, and it is also an affirmation of hard work.