Get out of my head! Seriously, I say a lot of this same stuff to people. The truth is people are constantly changing and not always in the same direction, and that is ok.. but marriage binds people together even at times when they should no longer be.. However I understand human nature and that need to feel loved, wanted and needed. People think that marrying someone will make those temporary feelings last forever, which is ridiculous. Plus most people get married way to quick and without thought, they dont really even know that person after a year or two of dating.. That is why you should choose a partner that understands you and your ideals so if/when it doesnt work out it wont be a painful mess that turns into hate..

I honestly never believed in marriage, I still dont believe in it the way others do.. But when you meet someone who you dont want to live without then I think a bond is forged, with or without the label of marriage.. Unfortunately most marriages dont have that bond, they just fake it becuz that is what society teaches us to do.. Its another way to strap people down and force them into this slave system we live in..

Great fucking post!