I appreciate how you chose a picture of a man about to enjoy a woman that is not considered typically "pretty" by US standards. I know every man has their preference (not judging anyone).
This article would have been easier to read had there been spacing between your paragraphs and some sub-headings breaking up the text.
Many women (even older women) haven't yet learned that sex doesn't keep a man around. Sex means different things to men than it does women, completely. Once a woman can accept that, the easier it will be for her to "respond" less to men who aren't worthy of her true self.