At that moment, because that kid was bullying my daughter, I didn't much care what her reasons were (for both stories) - I just wanted to make sure it stopped.

I recognised the fact that Dani displayed unusual behaviour toward her brother and nipped it in the bud PLUS I stopped her from being bullied too.

Not only have I always made sure my kids weren't bullied. I also made sure they weren't BULLIES either.

Which reminds me of another story.. which I'll tell tomorrow :)