How develop your personality?

in #life7 years ago (edited)

You may think that dealing with a strong personality is difficult to understand with him. You do not understand the kind of personality you deal with but have you ever looked for how strong personality is? . Some believe that she is a dominant figure but whatever the truth these beliefs do not reflect the strong personality at all.

Regardless of the circumstances surrounding us, you will need to rely on a strong mind and you need to have a strong personality to meet the various challenges of life. This character possesses a set of qualities.
A strong mind has a great ability to face challenges as it is a powerful tool with resources, mental skills and material abilities to cope with various difficulties. When a person is strong in his way of thinking and has the energy to face challenges and endurance.

The mental force gives us the courage to get rid of the stress and anxiety we experience in life. It is a mindset consisting of a variety of different qualities.

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How to be a strong personality?

What is personal?

Personality is the way we think, feel, act, make our use of everything different from other people. The personality consists of a set of attributes that we might call a good personality. We all know that reaching success requires a combination of good personal qualities.


How do you develop your personality?

You may think that you are always with you and that means that what you are can never change. William James, a renowned psychologist at Harvard University, notes that the Psychology Principles book explains that personality is more flexible than a gypsum mold and that you can control the qualities and characteristics you want to develop or improve.

When you have a strong personality that helps you in your social life within your home, your career ensures a more happy life in general. Some people do not have an attractive charismatic personality and some have a stronger audience and advise well. It is important that you have the ability to build and develop a personality that truly reflects how you would like to be.

Often you ask how to become a strong personality? If you really want this you must before anything determine why you need to become strong and personal and how important it is in your life.


What is the secret of strong personality? There are five essential elements of a strong personality:

** Self confidence .
** Courage .
** Commitment .
** control .
** Objectives .

These items may not be secret, but all you need is how to use your strengths and enjoy a strong mind. If you are a strong personality you can express these skills and attitudes on a daily basis no matter what happens in your life. Some people may have mental difficulties but the good news is that you can learn how to become a strong personality.


Here are some tips for becoming a strong personality:

Self confidence :

Self-confidence helps you to pass a lot of exercises and strong tests and when the levels of self-confidence decrease, lead to the difficulty of confrontation. You may find that taking simple steps may seem trivial to you, but you can overcome a range of different obstacles that you have never thought of. Many small improvements are based on success itself.
They are small and concrete steps but you step up the mountain step by step rather than giant leaps. We are less likely to feel out of control if we can identify small problems within the larger situation and small achievements enable you to move to the higher stage. Conclusion Self-confidence is a strong belief in yourself and your ability to achieve your goals.


Courage :

If you are afraid to do something in your life, you will not be able to overcome it. The strength comes from facing the obstacles that exist before you and reaching the depths of the resolve to overcome them. The courage comes from confronting the inside and developing a strong mind.

So you can tell yourself a set of provocative phrases such as no need to panic, you can do so, if you wait the situation will get worse, now is the best time to defer confrontation, etc.

Fear leads to the vibration of your resolve and is not built into a strong personality. The courage is to face the challenges and obstacles in life rather than the fear that drives you to avoid them.


Commitment :

Discipline is one of the seven habits of the most effective people. People often lack success because of non-compliance. Efficiency is not an inherited trait, such as blue eyes, but efficiency is the result of hard work and focus on achieving the desired result. No one succeeds overnight and failure does not happen overnight either.
A disciplined person can find innovative and important solutions.
And the best form of commitment that comes from the relentless desire for excellence in thinking and action.


the control :

Control means balancing the psychological conflict and finding ways to empower yourself and influence the direction and outcome of your life. The strong mind controls controlling the feelings of fear and focuses on how to reach the goal.

You need to do a set of exercises to learn how to control your life and to empty your mind of internal thoughts to focus on just one thing and focus on it. Once the mind becomes calm you can challenge the false beliefs you carry about yourself that you can easily change.
Control is the certainty that you are capable of coping with fateful events and accepting them and not focusing on negative aspects.


Objectives :

One of the most important elements for creating a strong personality is that you must live your life for a purpose you seek for. Regardless of the challenges and changes you face and go through in your life if you depend on the values ​​and principles that are important to you. You will give your life a wonderful meaning.

The tragedy of life does not enable you to reach your goals, but the real tragedy is the lack of goals you can reach. The calamity is not to die without achieving dreams but the disaster is that you do not have a dream to seek for it. In order to become a strong personality you have to think about your goals, which you are dedicated to achieving and that correspond to your own values.


Become a better listener:

One of the most important skills that must be present when a strong personality is to be a good listener. It comes through looking at the eyes of the speaker and your attention to him during the conversation to feel that he is an important person. You are a strong person when you feel the other party feels like the only person in the world.


Read something new every day:

Strong personality does not come through the strength of the body but the strong mind whenever you read something new every day as your interests become stronger and more interesting.


Set a goal in your life:

A strong personality is formed from the set of goals you set in your life and seeks to achieve them and determine what you want to do and plan to organize your time well. Setting goals is an important step to becoming a strong and successful person.


You have your own opinion:

When you try to talk to someone who has no opinion about the subject you're talking about you will not try to go back to talk to him. Try to create a distinctive view on the different topics and become more interesting with a strong personality.


be yourself :

This step may be the most tired Each of us has a unique personality Do not try to pretend any other personality because this weakens your personality in front of others and do not try to be a carbon copy of someone else This will not reveal the strength of your personality.


Be an active listener:

When you are in a conversation with others, try to be effective while talking by doing your best to make others feel appreciated and feel the power of your mind and your way of thinking.


Recognize your mistakes:

Recognizing mistakes does not mean weakness of personality, but means the strength of your personality in the face of your mistakes and when you discover your mistakes can make them a strong point for you and not double weaknesses.


Feed Your Mind:

Become a strong person in the eyes of others when you learn more languages ​​and different hobbies that feed your mind and growth well and if you have a particular interest in a hobby should continue to practice so that you can live.


Do not try to judge people too much:

Sentencing other people constantly does not strengthen your personality, but this behavior is characteristic of people who are vulnerable. Because they constantly tend to judge and evaluate others and are always worried about what people think about them and how they will react. Concern about the reaction of others will not solve the problem, but when people stop making judgments, they can become more relaxed and stronger.


Recognize your weaknesses:

You can not show your strengths without recognizing your weaknesses and if you continue your life without recognizing your problems and trying to solve them you will not have a strong personality and live your life with a stronger personality.


Supports others:

When you support others, you strengthen the cooperation side within you and share. So try to support others when they need your input and support.


A combination of strong personality traits:

** Take responsibility and not evade them.
** Ability to do hard work.
** Welcomes the challenges of life so that you can face them.
** Ability to control your emotions and actions.
** Changeability, achieve the change that supports your will.
** Do not be afraid to express your opinion and face others in
different views.
** You have a willingness to carry out a range of life risks to enhance your position.
** Learn from your mistakes so be sure not to do again.
** Commitment to achieving your goals in your life.
** Prepare to accept all the surprises that may pass you.



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This is true. We indeed dictate our own personalities, and there's so much we can do about it! As a fellow psychology writer, you might wanna check out my works too :). Thank you!

These are all great points, i also would like to poubt out that Empowerment and Commendation also contributes to self confidence and enhance personality..

excellent instructions, you know what to write, I do this kind of work ... I would like to add that the most important thing is never to give up and face difficulties, it will allow you to grow as a person above yourself, and do not forget to cash your mistakes, because mistakes, then your teachers are life ... thanks, it's interesting

Recognize your weaknesses is by far the best advice you can give to someone who wants to develop their personality.

This post is very essential for increasing personality. Their have topic that's role of a person for personality.Specially it's help me so much. Thanky very much for you valuable post and wishing long life.

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