how to handle a toxic life with a toxic person
Life is not perfect and so with the people around us. But how to handle them matters. Yes, there will always be difficult people with a toxic personality and this may either break or make you a better person. We could always choose to get angry and be even than them but wait, is this what we really want? Doing it will just complicate the situation. Worse, we can never be at peace....
In my 40 years of existence, life has taught me to value these toxic/difficult people. Why? Because, they made me stronger. They gave me the chance to mirror myself to them and realize, I should improve and never be like them. Yes, its not easy... I tell you. There will always be times when you want to show the tiger or lion in you but in the end, I never gain anything at all.
So how to handle them? Smile, do good to them and pray for them. As the saying goes, do not do unto others what you don't want others do unto you. It is still applicable.
Life is beautiful. Why suffer with toxic people? They should not steal our happiness. Am I right steemit friends?
Let us continue to stay with people who uplift our spirit not pull us down. Be happy!
"Life is too short to be miserable." --Rita Mae Brown
I say avoid the toxic folks at all cost. Be happy :)
yes , that's true!