How to stop whining and start acting

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When your plans do not come true, the goals are not reached and everything falls from your hands, do not blame for all the circumstances. Here are three tips that will help collect the will into a fist and achieve the desired.

We constantly talk about the need to think everything over, calculate everything, but in the end we do not do anything. There are many doubts, we leave from the goal, which was originally, or lower the bar to a minimum. It often happens that we suddenly decided, but it's too late and that opportunity to come to success is lost.

Taking responsibility for ourselves, we can control the result.

American multimillionaire, coach for motivation and sales Grant Cardone has become a true leader not only in business but also in life and continues to encourage people around the world to achieve ambitious goals. Let's see what he advises.

1. Have a point of view "Yes, I can"

To begin with, the leaders always follow the installation "Yes, I can." They are 100% sure that the result is not only achievable, but real even in the most difficult circumstances. This mood determines how you are ready to go to the goal, and puts everything in its place. People with the installation "Yes, I can" constantly say: "Let's figure it out," "We can do it", "Let's do it" and thus claim that anything is possible. Strive for a level where "Yes, I can" becomes normal, and everything else is unacceptable.

2. Completely devote himself to busines

This is a distinguishing feature of truly successful people. After all, in life we are always just trying, but do not invest in the maximum effort, because we are not sure that we will achieve the desired result. Too many people are now who do not take their business to the end and try to do something else.

Completely devote oneself to business means to choose the path and say to yourself: "There is no road back."

3.Do large-scale actions

Now let's talk about the actions that we are doing to achieve the goals. Most people fail because they do not do enough to achieve the goal. And all because they incorrectly estimate the scale of the necessary actions.

Large-scale actions are the only sure way to achieve their goals, says Grant Cardon. They bring a much greater result than you expect. Take, for example, the work of the artist. If he draws one picture and comes with it only to one gallery, then the probability of selling it is not very high. But if the artist draws 10 pictures and takes them all to 10 galleries, then the probability that he will sell at least one (and most likely not one) is much more than in the first case.

When you start to act scale - you will see how your mood will change, your goals and results.

Before we start to achieve our goal, we usually think about why we can not achieve it. And then there is a list of reasons. This is a wrong approach. As soon as we stop thinking about failure and completely commit ourselves to the goal, we will act on a scale - we will approach the desired one.