Sometimes, life sucks. You have a lot of problems : breaking-up, loss work, death, diseases ... You think fate of destiny are always against you or you're born unlucky, with a bad fairy.

The circumstances seem to repeat again and again, like an infernal circle. You ask why these events happen only to you, why do you need face tests or difficulties. You want only one thing : a serene life.

You can get over all the difficulties if you want it really !

When you need to face of an hard situation, you must to remember this only thing : it's not a test, but a way to find a new solution for your life. You have already did it. When you was a baby, you learned to walk before to fall again and again. You made the first step and fallen maybe thousand times but you continued to try. After you learned walking, you would to run. And you did it !

In your life, that is the same pattern. Each time you need to confront a new situation, you will success after several tries. Sometimes, you need just one try, sometimes you need twenty or more to be successful. At the end, you pass and it is the more important lesson.

You had already fight the chaos on your life. You adapted yourself, you learned, you grew up each time you did it. Chaos and difficulties are necessary in our life. How to left our comfort zone if nothing comes to push out ?

Anywhere, anytime, anything : lessons are unlimited

For each dispute, you teach a lesson. Sometimes bad or good, maybe you have suffered or you was happy, each time you grew up after this learning. Ask to yourself honestly : will you be the same person if you don't meet this obstacles ? Will you have your special abilities or specific personality ? Will you be this wonderful person what you are ? I don't think so. Maybe a more peaceful and simple way was been, but the results will be very different.

When you confront a situation, ask yourself this three questions : What is exactly the difficulty I need to confront ? What are the reasons I don't success immediately ? What can I do to change the situation ?

Chaos isn't the result of hazardous or fate. It's the result of your former actions or inactions. Problems are just a new one situation for which you don't have the solution actually. You must to find in yourself the force to fight against your fears and change your mind.

Chaos isn't a bad experience, but a wonderful way to grow up !

If you have family problems, it's because you have a family. If you have a fight with your girlfriend or you boyfriend, it's because you have a loved relationship with someone. If you are stressed about your job, the simple reason is you have a job ! Take the time to feel gratitude about what do you have already.

If you don't have these things, yes, you will not have these problems. But take a look. Each time you have a confront in a special situation, family, love or work, you learn something new about yourself and your capacities. You have a new chance to overcome you own limits, to become a better version of yourself.

Take example about Nelson Mandela : a man who was in jail during more than 20 years and became a famous figure of the fight about the rights of minority people. During his imprisonment, Mandela took the time to improve his way of mind, to change and convince the others to follow his way.

You can do something extraordinary because you're extraordinary ! You just need to focus about yourself and your certitudes. It's your choice : accept to fight the difficulties and to overcome yourself or resign and complain all the day.

Maybe Chaos sourced in your past, your childhood. Severals facts can limit our personal development. But you're not a victim, you're not a child again ! You're an adult and you can change your world. Take the problems, confront your inner enemies and let's go ! You're strong people and you're wonderful !