My thoughts about life
As a parent we make everything That we are capable of for Making life the outmost for our children. It's not just meanwhile they're small and cute, but it's a pleasing full time job for the rest of our lives.
The first few years are most about taking care of, guiding and showing what is right and wrong, avoiding damage without being overprotective. The boundary between being overprotective and balanced is very fine and it is up to each person to handle their child as best considered by virtue of their overall experience and skills. After all, our children are only for loans for a short period of our lives.
" The three monkeys shows the parents' constant struggle to exist and listen, do not say too much, and sometimes do not look too much to not hamper the development of our children "
Soon comes the time when we are questioned by the people we have long been protected and guided through life, well I say! It only shows that they understood what we said and showed, they dare to stand on their own legs ... even if it's like Bambi on the slippery ice, the first stabbing steps are incredibly important. Now they begin to create their own values, experiences and that's excactelly That way it should be.
"Our job is to be there and when they fall, slowly push them up and let them continue to slip around, That is growing"
Sometimes, as parents, we need to help straighten out the slightly crooked road, show and share experiences from just that time as the child is in right now. It can be hard, demanding but it is worth it every second we do it. As our childeren grow up, those times are becoming increasingly rare and one day they move away from home for various reasons and the space around us gets quiet and empty.
Then the next phase of our lifes start, stop worrying about how They Will do, the missing, the memories, the desire to be a part of the children's life again. Let it be so for a while, years, the young person will come and ask for your advice again, listen, appreciate and value-That's when you know you succeeded as a parent and all the love you feelt from the first time that little crab came out, that love is as strong as that!
One day, your children get their own little loveones, and then memories come back from the past, the love, guidance, tenderness, and eternal struggle to always exist for someone, someone worth more than their own lives!
💕This is written to my own children despite the knowledge that they will never find this post in this community💕