Want to know who you are? You can start by learning how to listen.
Most of us tend to love talking about ourselves while we find this act so boring when others exercise it. Good form of Listening might be the key to understanding not only those who we are listening to but also ourselves as we reflect ourselves on their stories in essence experiencing their story as if it was our own. Reading rich novels can help you live lifetimes of experience and getting to know yourself more intimately.