Top 5 Reasons Why Love Is Scarier Than You Think!
In life, young people have always been dreaming to find their love somehow and then everything will just be "great" as they think.
The truth is, that love can be scarier way more than people tend to think.
#1: Your love can be someone unexpected
You may have been dreaming to find your perfect man/woman but you may be surprised to meet someone you like who isn't even close to what you imagined your love will look like. Therefore you may feel a bit scary about this relationship, but once you change your mind about the look of your love, you will forget about the fake imagination you had before.
#2: Love includes fights
Not everyone is ready to fight his love (Without punches LOL). All the healthy relationships between couples include fights within them because both sides in relationships can never agree on the same things all the time. If you think that you won't fight with your love then you are wrong!
#3: Love can end badly
A relationship between you and your boyfriend/girlfriend can be cut at once and it can hurt both sides a lot. You have to be prepared before entering a relationship that there is always a chance (which can be very low) to the end of the relationship.
#4: You don't know how your family will react
In most cases, your family and close friends have a huge impact on your life.
Let's imagine it for a moment: You found a new boyfriend/girlfriend and you don't know what your family and friends will feel and tell you about your new relationship (Scary, isn't it?). However, I strongly believe that if you love someone then you should not let other people tell you what to do, even if they hate your couple.
#5: Relationship demands a lot "FREE TIME" of yours
When you are in a relationship you will notice very fast that you have way less time for yourself, which is a critical thing for many people. You have to be ready to sacrifice a part of your free time in favor of your relationship in order to have a healthy one.
CONCLUSION
Love is truly a scary thing, you have so many new things to discover in your new relationship. However, love is the most beautiful thing in our world. That's why you have to keep calm and try not to be afraid of love at all!
Well done, this is life
Great post from you
Thanks for sharing
The time thing is main issue for me, I want to hustle yet GF want go eat some food, watch movie...
Balance is key :)
Why love when you could lose, why lose what you would love
i find true love she loves me soo much :)
Wow, this is amazing, @jassi!
It isn’t the easiest thing in life to find love. Amazing partners don’t grow on trees. True love is magical and mythical and elusive, and few of us have experienced true love.
We all search for the state of euphoria that true love provides. We search high and low. We search far and wide.
The journey to true love is very hard. It’s filled with heartbreak, deceit and loss of both faith and hope. But one day, maybe, we will summit the peak of understanding. Love will hit us like an epiphany, and we will the best understanding how the world works.
True love will make you feel like you finally understand everything. No matter how crazy, how stupid, hectic and random the world may be, it will suddenly make sense. You will understand that everything has an order.
Wow, thanks for that meaningful comment, @ebado! Well said!
Yea.. Thanks bro
love has destoryed my life
Why?
My lover love some one else
Chin up buddy, just dont get into the same trap again! Pick for personality traits over looks!
Hello @lazariko12, do you know the #lovefriday tag?
It's one year old today and I guess this post would fit there!
cheers
I don't know this tag, but I have just added this tag. Thanks, @rmach!
As for me, love is a wonderful thing with the right person.. the fights and disagreement are among the things that makes it wonderful. When u find the right person, u will know.
I agree with you on it, @burktrey. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Yes love is scary because it explores unknown territories. People just choose to see the scary part But if you check closely you will realize that it is scary and exciting at the same time.
Well said, @ronarexx!
Beautiful article!! For me love got less scary, the moment i realized i can never get a perfect relationship ,but can make my imperfect relationship perfect.
The greatest cause of fear is fear. We need to wipe away that fear and love won' t seem so scary.
Love is the best gift we can ever have.
"Love is the best gift we can ever have".
I agree with you on it, thanks for commenting @elsieguy!