How to find your place in life

Many people find themselves at a deadlock and realize this late. The task of getting out of it can be a real challenge. In order to change something in one's own life, one must neglect the opinion of relatives, learn to make serious decisions and become an open person to everything new.

How to find yourself in life? Everyone understands this question in his own way: for someone, a place in life is the status and level of prosperity, for someone - creativity and career growth. But in the end it all boils down to one thing: you can not become a truly happy person by doing something you do not like.

It happens that in matters of self-determination people listen to anyone except themselves: to friends, parents, teachers or leaders. They blindly follow the expectations that society presents. And sometimes this abstract idea of conformance to requirements becomes a personal tragedy of a person.

One day you wake up, you are thirty, it's raining outside the window, and you clearly realize how much you hate your life. With sadness and longing for lost time, you look at the ceiling and start looking for an answer.

But are you brave enough to throw away all that is familiar and cozy, to go after the truth, to seek the truth in yourself and the world around you?

If you accept as a teacher everyone whom you will meet, and most importantly, if you are ready to accept and forgive the uneasy truth about yourself, then you will find yourself.

The secret of successful searches is in learning to hear first of all yourself, learn to understand your desires, try to discover talents and attachments. There is no such thing as "late"!

You always have a chance to change your life if you really want it. Everything depends on you, and no circumstances can keep a person who burns with an idea or a dream. It is great if you not only realized your position, but also have a clear understanding of where to strive.

For example, when you were young you were seriously involved in dancing, but parents insisted on a serious profession, and you became a lawyer. Then you can, at least, start to save money and develop a plan for opening a dance school.

Or, you can leave your job, settle in a dance studio and actively improve your skills, then become a professional choreographer and teach.

It happens that a girl wants to become a movie star, but actually sleeps and sees how she is loved and idolized by everybody. If you want to be successful, rich, beautiful and famous, you are motivated by a sense of your own worth. It's a mask and a desire to hide yourself real ... It has nothing to do with your calling.

Even if you reach unprecedented heights, the emptiness and sense of uselessness will not disappear anywhere. Remember: the search for self begins with giving up rivalry and comparing oneself with others.