Absolute rules that are binding and must be implemented

Many things children learn in the family, especially the relationship with parents who always give love and love. The love and love that children get from their parents will be developed by the child as the child begins to socialize with his environment. For example, when children feel loved, loved and also noticed they will also share affection with friends, but when a child feels unloved, loved and also noticed then the child will have an indifferent nature and do not care about his friend. They are all the result of parenting patterns that vary.

What is parenting?

Parenting is the attitude of parents in dealing with their children, this parenting can be seen from various sides such as how the parents give attention, the way parents make punishment and rewards and also the way parents in obeying all the wishes of his son. So the conclusion of parenting is the way parents educate to educate children either directly or indirectly.

This kind of parenting prioritizes the interests of the child and does not restrain. Parents of this type are merciful and warm. Parents are also realistic about their children's ability not to expect more on the ability of children, parents also always give freedom to children to choose and perform an action desired by the child, but parents also do not hesitate to give punishment if the child made a mistake.

This type of parenting will produce the characteristics of children who are independent, disciplined, have a good relationship with the environment and their friends and easily adjust to the new environment.

This kind of parenting tends to have absolute rules that are binding and must be implemented. For example, if you do not want to eat, they should not play should remain in the room. Parents of this type also sometimes force, rule and punish. If the child does not want to do what the parent instructs, then the parent does not hesitate to punish the child.

Parenting with this type will produce the characteristics of children who are timid, quiet, closed, do not want to socialize with others, like to oppose and they are also not confident to try new things for fear of being scolded by his parents.

This kind of parenting usually has a nature that is marijuana and does not provide supervision / is not prohibited. Parents give their children the opportunity to do everything they want without supervision. Parents usually never admonish or just remind when their children make mistakes.

Parents of this type still provide love and love only the difference between parents tend to be indifferent and let the children make mistakes, they assume mistakes made small children are underestimated but small errors that let it just over time will be a big problem. Parenting with this type will produce the characteristics of children who are spoiled, less independent, want to win their own, not obedient and act as if by themselves (impulsive).

This kind of parenting is often done by parents who are too busy working to pursue the material but the child did not share the material, parents tend to be stingy to pay for the needs of their children only attach importance to personal needs, attention, and affection that never get children. Parents of this type behave neglect of the child's physical and psychic. This pattern of abandonment is usually obtained from parents who have mental disorders such as depression and stress.

Parenting with this type produces the characteristics of a moody child (changing his feelings for a while soon he is cranky), impulsive, aggressive, disobedient, irresponsible, unwilling to budge and often in trouble with his friends. Usually, this type of child can be met on street children.

Well of the characteristics of the above parenting patterns, we as parents can be introspective if the pattern of parenting and educate the wrong child then we must immediately change it because the wrong parenting will have a negative impact on the physical and psychological development of children and also their survival when they live to socialize with the environment later.