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RE: Daily Om: What Makes People Tick
Sympathetic comprehension. I like that notion, John. My wife and I will talk and sometimes we just need to vent and get things off our chest. It’s important sit back, listen intently, and really show others that we care about them and about their situations, good or bad.
-Ken
I have to admit I find one of the toughest things for me to do is to listen to others without quickly trying to think of a way to “fix their problem.” Often that’s not what they need or want at all. It can often be best to just accept where they are at and stand in solidarity with them.
I'm the same way. I am a fixer, and very solutions oriented. Sometimes, I will ask my husband, 'What is the best way I can support you right now? Do you want me to help you solve this? Or do you just want me to listen?'. Very effective for our communication (and frustration levels! LOL).
Amy Honey