It is hard to have one role model, as you mentioned above. Rather we pick the bits and pieces from many people and make our own imaginary role model. It is not bad thing, in my opinion. Just like religions, with all their weird parts, teach good. However, 'bad' traits play an important part in all this too. They make us critical thinkers. And as my dad likes to say, ''Learn from others mistakes''.
Great post @calaber24p