My Presentation to Steemit

I was born in the city of Barcelona - Edo. Anzoátegui / Venezuela, on October 25, 1985, my parents are Héctor José Leal Guariman and Beatriz Carrera Ruiz, I am the oldest of three maternal brothers and the fifth brother by my father.

I grew up a childhood with separated parents, my mother always strives to give to my brothers and my best moment, always loving and attentive, dedicated, with all her children. My father less responsible although he always cares to share with me on weekends.

My childhood really was very funny, I lived in a small house, although my aunt with her three children and my mother with my brothers and I liked. Our hours of play were the best, all were contemporaries, others were with others, and that was all crazy, because we invented too much. We play the fights, the wizards, the football, the marbles, we enter things.

In the case of my paternal brothers as they were mostly of legal age than Hector José who only took me three years apart, there was no such camaraderie, several times they were married and with children but my older brothers who are contemporaries with me and my brother hectico because we called it of affection we passed it to the maximum when we shared together, we were going to fly kites, my brother also made us dolls in paratroopers, we played boxing hehehehehe, it was all a diveresion.

"I loved it". "I loved it". I really liked the fact that my brother had not been able to be there because I had gone to the beach with his friends, but I remember he said "I lend you my" stereo, see you later to celebrate us. "We really did not know those things were practically the last words to me, since on November 14, 1998 when they only had 16 years recently, he was going to buy uniforms and musical instruments that played samba and wanted to set up an alternative rock group something similar to MANA group (It was his favorite group) When they were on the road, a terrible accident occurred in which he and his best friend lost their lives.The truth was very hard for the family, he did not understand why he was the only one who had lost his life, My father was also in the car and he had a brother. Fortunately, he did not die very badly for a month. He did not know that his son was dead.

It was not until December 14 of that year that my father heard the terrible news, which made him very bad and his news could not overcome, and of course his son, the light of his eyes.

Time went by and with time it was relieved 100%, my dad was improving until I decided that life had to be like the last nobody knows at what time to start and what is left is lived.

Time passed and with the wine many celebrations and parties with the family, we had to enjoy every moment of life.

When I was 16 years old we decided to move to another city, my mother with my brothers and I, I received a news my little sister of only 14 years was pregnant and we did not know anything about how or when it happened. But the blessing of the battery, the load, the load, the load and the delivery of the load of Luis David, this is what our little treasure is called, he is like a son to me.

Then I started working, working in Clubs, Restaurant, Casinos, until they got to work in a Bank, for me there really is a school that learned many things, I wanted to be the best and I always worry about learning all the positions that were there.

My sister finished graduating and when she was 21 years old she moved in with Luis David and a couple that she had by then, after the short pregnancy time of her second baby's serious. We were happy because you came back to the family again, but the reality that we had to confront was another.

When my sister was ready to give birth to her baby, I placed a medication in error which was allergic and her organs began to fail, we lived through days of agony while my sister was in intensive therapy and on the morning of September 30, 2009 when he was about to enter the work office he received the terrible news that my little sister had died, his body could not resist anymore

It was a terrible moment, we went through terrible situations during this process that even tried to steal the baby from the hospital, thank God it was not achieved and the child so far is with us.

By then I had a great friend, Mirna Vasquez, she just as I was going through a very sad time but different situations but it affected her the same.

In the month of November of that same year I proposed to katty (mirna vasquez) so we call her of affection that if she wanted to be my partner and it was not until the 23 of that month that I accepted, we started dating together as boyfriends, we enjoyed to the maximum and December 24, I proposed to further strengthen our relationship and get to live together, she accepted and we began to live in her mother's house.

On February 12, 2010 I received a great news, I would say the best I have received in this life, because I was going to be a father, we started quickly with everyone going to the doctor, to know that everything in the pregnancy was going well, we bought baby clothes , car, cradle. Everything so that the baby that was to come would not lack anything, even my father killed the cravings that gave him and so much so that on September 12 of that same year Katty asked to eat Curry, and my dad I prepare it, I remember that it ate so much that it satiated all the desire that I had to eat and the next morning when I was on the way to your last consultation to finalize all the details for the surgery of the birth of our baby, at 10:00 am they called me informing me that the delivery had gone ahead and my daughter was being born.

When it was already 12:00 pm they informed me that everything had gone very well and that my daughter had been born. She is the most beautiful girl that my eyes have seen. My little Antonella Valentina Leal Vasquez we were a happy family, very united, we loved to travel, go for a walk until recently life gave us a 360º turn.

First on December 1, 2013 my father died, then on March 1, 2014 my mother-in-law died and then on April 28, 2017 my brother-in-law died. They were very strong blows that life gave us, my wife never got over it and what I never expected, much less I imagined that on July 15, 2017 approximately during some medical check-ups that we were doing to my partner Katty, we were informed that she sufferance of non-Hodgkin lymphoma. Non-Hoding Lymphoma (NHL) is a cancer of the lymphatic tissue. Upon knowing the news we decided to do everything possible and fight cancer but life did not leave us on July 30, just 15 days after we learned of her illness, she died. Really until now it is something that I still do not overcome, she was very important to me, she and my daughter were my world, my everything, and life ripped her from my arms. At first I had no idea how I was going to tell my daughter that her mother had died but good God gave me the strength to tell her and to her the maturity to accept the information.

It's been almost eight (08) months since Kathy's death, and it was not easy, at first my house felt empty, the depressions were very close, but thanks to my little antonella, my mother my nephews and brothers have left ahead.

Right now I am channeling an operation that my daughter requires at the hips level, since she suffers from bilateral congenital dislocation of hips due to a bad maneuver during her birth, and it is something that I can not continue to crush and well it is not easy because many already know the reality of my country Venezuela. Where everything goes home more expensive and inaccessible day where the fight for drugs is horrid because nothing is achieved product of the shortage we have and really I more than anyone I know that because I have Epilepcia since 13 years and the truth right now I have no choice but to buy resold drugs.

But I know that my country will soon come out of all these evils that overwhelm us and I will be able to get my medicines without problems and what is better I will be able to operate my daughter from her little caderitas and I will be able to see her grow up as a healthy child without problems that disturb her .