Never a photostat nor a photocopy

The Art of getting what you wanted in your life is no longer a Somebody's concern when you become independent with your own lifestyle. People today became the most curious citizens letting down their own precious inner peace at somebody's happiness.

The level of people getting a divorce has grown up equating the population explosion in India. Before the statements are proposed for official news, the counterfeit takes a leap in the magazine corners. I'm not penning this article to shout to the world that it has become the most unsafest place to live with nor the people are becoming the most unfairest creatures to meddle with. Just an intention to tell "Keep Calm and Move on".

Seeing the toils around, when i was a kid i felt very unsafe and had too many phobias to handle myself to meet the end of the day. I always kept telling me often that this too shall pass and tomorrow is always going to be a better day. I could not remember the times i counted whenever i said these self motivational talks to myself. I always needed somebody to tell me that it is going to be alright very soon.

Today looking back it has been a chagrin to my very own face for living in a dead end all these days. It has been very late that i realized i have a life for myself and my personal happiness matters the most than the hubbub around. I remember my loved ones masterminding me with all the best elbow room wherein they just failed to ask in return if it was in my wishlists of fancies too.

By my very own behavior for the past 22 years of not listening to what my heart ever wanted, i'm now in an air of melancholy. I have always followed the road map offered by my loved ones, but never one on my own. A sense of humiliation keeps me feel culpable. My loved ones taught me what was the best, but today i feel shivered up to face the world which they never knew. But still i'm never going to give up nor continue the masters who keep me masterminding. I have learnt my very own responsibility with what my birth has to teach.

With each new seeds sowed (Pre-birth) and with each shoot that grows up to become the stem (Birth), as the plant gets taller (Growth since birth), the leaves and flowers matters the most with whom to provide the shade and whom to give an yield (Achievements and Social Adaptations). BUT only if your Roots (Foundation that the loved ones cultivate) are the strongest. Just be yourself and be happy for who you are.

Keep the charm that someone wants and be the person someone has never been. No matter who you are, never try duplicating what already has been. Being your own version of "Best" matters the most than the photocopies (Human comparisons) people keep searching for.