Excellent post dear friend @denmarkguy invites you to a reflection, the "they" are in all areas of our lives, there are those who care much about what they say, however if you want to live a healthy life, you have to concentrate on doing things as best as possible and know where to where your personal space is, other than that you have to be as respectful as possible, if you handle it like that, the "them" does not matter
I take the opportunity to wish you a beautiful weekend