The best way to raise your child
Train up a child with much love and care, children are like plants, when you water your plants and fertilize them,you see massive growth and production which the plant will come up with.
One of the ways you can bring out the best from your child is by linking him/her to God.
A child who is God fearing is always assured to be very obedient,respectful,loyal,humble,intelligent etc.
No one is a perfect parent but one thing that parents can do to help the be a better example is teaching their children about God. You do not have to be an expert to help your children begin their own faith journey. As christains\muslims,our relationship with God is the most important relationship we will ever have.
Always talk about God when ever you are with your children, this will enable them develop an easy relationship with God. Then you will see if he/she grows with it he/she can never depart from it.
Secondly try to create a perfect relationship with your children. That is by removing fears from there minds. They can easily share the area they are been affected with you as their parents.
Sometimea children are afraid of situations or objects that adults don't find threatening. Do you know you can help your child by taking their fears seriously and encouraging them to talk about there feelings.
Reinforce positive behaviour. Allow your child to make small steps towards overcoming their fear.
Sometimes a child is so fearful that it interferes with their daily life and play. I always advice parents to seek professional help if you consider your child is particularly burdened with fears.
Children can be taught how to manage their own anxiety and parents can learn helping strategies.
You can get help from your doctor or child psychologist.
Thirdly try to set goals opportunity for your children,bring out the best in them.
Sometimes allow them to create there own opportunities,meanwhile you are always there to assist them were they found obstacles that are bigger than them and give them the best choices. By so doing i believe your children will be among the best in the whole wide world.
Always remember your children are your real image. they are the once to take your place when you are no more. So bring out the best in them and expect much more bigger returns..................
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That's absolutely right and lack of these points have break many homes today.