You can not make someone feel love to you.
Loving you will not be for your good attitude, caring, easygoing nature and comfort - it does not cause love, there is not everything. You can be the most caring, wait for him in the evening with a gorgeous dinner, a sincere desire to listen to how his day went, and he will eat all your preparations, talk about work using standard phrases and go write to the same woman who catches. He will go to her like a blind dog, she does not care at all how much sugar he puts in his tea, she does not care what he thinks - she does not need anything from him. And he burns at her, and how he burns. Because the installation is. Maybe she looks like his first love? Maybe he's a spineless nurse, and she's so overbearing, and subconsciously drawn to the person he wants to be like? Variants of a thousand. He himself may not know why it is. Love - it is random, and it will not work.