In my opinion, if I have the money, I will do the banquet style. Bao ka liao all invite once and for all, headache sekaligus gaotim all. haha. While I agree with all your points of the Nay. Because my wedding banquet last time also had 33 tables. I could not remember who attended until I viewed the photos. Banquet is more for the guests feeling. We made them feel grand and like a Cinderalla haha.

but if dont want to spend, small scale is good enough. 😄