A great post. Thank you for writing for all the mothers out there, for appreciating their hard work and tears. Nonetheless, as a mother myself, I do not think of it as sacrifice, staying awake all night taking care of my sick kid, giving her all my time and attention, staying at home stead of hanging out to have fun with my folks, etc. To me, those are my choice and happiness as well :) I think at some point, parents have to let go of their children, physically as well as emotionally to live their own life, and allow their children to live their lives, too. That creates a normal and healthy relationship for both parties. That's my idea but I am not sure if I am able to let go of my little one ever :)