The truth behind expectation in a marriage life. @heartbeat1515 was inspired by...
Today I was inspired by a post from @beverlyjoe.
Check it out ๐ Married life(Why is it scary for some people?)
What do people usually expect in marriage?
- Living like in a fairytale where the story always end with the phrase... 'Hapilly ever after.'
What are the facts in marriage life?
- It will always start with, There will be...(and the last word will end with the letter 'S'.
Can you guess?
- Let me tell you my guesses.
- There will be arguements
- There will be missunderstandings
- There will be loneliness
Why?
๐ To disagree is easier than to disagree.
Question : Do you agree?
- Answer 1 : Yes. (Usually there will be no more question)
- Answer 2 : No. (The next question will be 'Why?')
๐ To ignore is easier than to understand.
Question : Why can't you understand me?
- Answer 1 : (Walk away)
- Answer 2 : Could you please explain to me what's going on? (And the conversation become long sometimes a bit of shouting with a lot of crying and etc.)
๐ Responsibility sometimes cause short separation.
To live need to eat ๐ To eat need food ๐ Food need money ๐ Money need work ๐ Work need dedication ๐ Dedication give good reputation ๐ Good reputation give better work ๐ Better work give better money ๐ Better money give better food ๐ better food give better nutritious food to eat ๐ Better nutritous food give better life ๐ Better life cause responsibility separated into two (Family and Work)
- The short separation I meant was when we need to work or the need to to far way from our family due to work.
There is also...
Arguement can also be a channel of good understanding between two people because of the loneliness.
And the truth behind expectation...
Hapilly ever after can exist if there is a give and take between spouse
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I can't agree more. Your article was well written.
Thank you.
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My mom got the "happily ever after" trope whacked out of me a long time ago. I can say she raised me right hahahaha...
Having weird expectation about marriage perpetrated by Hollywood movies are messing up the mindsets of people since the 70s.. That has to change IMO.
Yes and it started as a bedtime story. I don't think that will ever change in some people that have a strict mind thinking. It may be better with open minded people.
@heartbeat1515 Thank goodness I'm surrounding with open minded people.
Me too.