The post kind of blindsided me. I hope I am not being presumptuous but good to know that you are moving back to city of your family.

"Im just losing my mind trying to figure what to keep as 90% of what i own im getting rid of."

Getting rid of stuff is difficult for me. So I just do a major clearance operation on my possessions almost once a year. Kind of harsh but saves me a ton of trouble for later when I move.