Islam

These relationships that you think are so awesome? This message is for you especially teenagers of our Ummah who kinda of shot an email and somebody emailed them back and a little Facebook thing happened you know? a little wink here and there in the playground even though it's a separate school but in reeses we saw each other, like a little bit of that happened, you know all of this is a product of low self-esteem, you think you're ugly so if a guy thinks you're cute, you're like: o really? i am beautiful? you have low self-esteem, you think nobody's gonna like you, nobody's gonna want to marry you and all that stuff.

Now coming back to guys, we don't have good friendships and good relationships and we're looking for something always? and let me tell you just because you have raging hormones and you're like daydreaming about girls and things like that, it doesn't mean that you're in love? it just means that you haven't controlled your temptations yet and you're ruining somebody's life. You're ruining an entire family, do you realize what you're doing? and you call it love?

Tell me if she was like 50 pounds fatter, you'd still be in love? if she was a burn victim or something, if her hand burnt off or her ear was missing, you'd still be in love? or you'd find somebody else to love all of a sudden? and if you can't answer that question honestly then come on, you're not in love, you're just hormonal, that's all you are, you know? this is what we've done to relationships that are supposed to be beautiful, marriage is supposed to be a beautiful relationship, it's supposed to be a lifelong relationship but because you're watching all