You are responsible for your child
In recent decades, parents have been encouraged to yield to their children's desires; to praise them generously,even if they did nothing praiseworthy; to with old corrections and discipline. It was thought that if children were made to feel special, they would grow up with healthy self-esteem. But what have the results shown? The book Generation Me states: "Instead of creating well-adjusted, happy children, the self-esteem movement has created an army of little narcissists."
Many children raised with unconditional praise have grown up unprepared for disappointments, criticism, and occasional failure. Because of being taught to focus on their own desires, they find it hard as adults to form lasting relationships. As a result, many of them suffer from anxiety and depression.
Children develop real self-worth, not by being constantly told that they are special, but through genuine accomplishments. That requires more than just believing in themselves. They need to learn, practice, and refine chosen skills carefully. They also need to care about other people's needs. All of this requires humility.
HOW CAN THIS BE ACHIEVED
Give praise when it is truly deserved: If your son or daughter scores well in a school test, commend her. If she gets a low grade, do not automatically blame the teacher. That would hardly help your daughter learn humility. Instead, help her see how she may do better next time. Reserve praise for actual accomplishments.
Give correction when necessary: This does not mean that you should criticize your child for every mistake made. But serious errors should be corrected. The same can be said about wrong attitudes. Otherwise these may become more deeply ingrained.
Prepare your Child for life's realities: Indulging a child's every wish can cause him to feel entitled. So, for example, if your child wants something you cannot afford, explain why it is necessary to live within a budget. Explain to them that disappointment are part of life and perhaps, discuss with them on how to deal with it.
With these few points listed, you will go in a long way in making your children better people in the society.
Post created and written by @official-hord, edited and posted by @camzy
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nice!!
Very true